• BigDotNet@lemmy.mlOP
      link
      fedilink
      Español
      arrow-up
      6
      arrow-down
      3
      ·
      3 months ago

      People who blame anyone else or anything else for all the bad things what happens to them except themselves, like if they are always a victim of external things.

      • Semjaza@lemmynsfw.com
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        3 months ago

        Sounds like a narcissist, like Trump or Jez from Peep Show.

        Not a healthy outlook and works well to prevent self reflection.

      • originalfrozenbanana@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        3 months ago

        I mean clearly those people do exist, so I’m curious if you have something specific in mind? Kinda feels like asking how people feel about folks with anger issues. Not great but they exist?

        • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          2
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          3 months ago

          Person bitching about economic unfairness but doesn’t spend their money wisely…

          Yeah the economics is shot for vast majority of people but no amount of good economy can fix fool with his money.

    • Lvxferre@mander.xyz
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      3 months ago

      I couldn’t find it to show you, but I remember an episode of The Osbournes where Ozzy put the pet food bowl in the middle of the kitchen, Sharon warned him “don’t do this, you’ll eventually kick it”, then after some time Ozzy kicked the bowl and blamed their pet for moving the bowl to that position.

      I don’t know if Ozzy has victim mentality, but people with victim mentality do this sort of thing all the time - they never acknowledge that they did something that caused them an issue. And that’s bad for both the ones around them and for themselves.