• chingadera@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    No worries homie. Yeah shits a big ol bummer. Advice you didn’t ask for: Sort yourself before dating again, you don’t wanna bring distrust to your future endeavors. Had to be single for 5 years after firebombing my relationship with insecurity.

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      3 months ago

      I might not have asked for it, but I needed to read it. The insecurity that developed is devastating. I haven’t attempted to date (dating apps just seem to be hookers any onlythots round here). I had a friend describe the process as trying to fill a goddess hole (impressive double entendre and play on God hole) and it really is.

      I have a lot of learning about myself to do. One thing I found out is I really like golf. So I bought myself a driver to replace my 20 year old aluminum club and I am very excited to try that out.