• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    Did your parents let you run off into a garbage dump? No. Well, mine didn’t.

    People seem to think that there’s only a two position switch for devices: unfettered access, or none.

    If you aren’t supervising and communicating with your kids, you really shouldn’t let them have internet access. It isn’t the internet that’s the problem there, it’s adults not taking the time to do their job. It’s absurdly easy to block or otherwise limit access to unwanted sites/services. That’s the bare minimum a parent needs to learn. But it’s still the beginning. You always, always communicate with your kids. You do the job, or it’s on you.

    And, having grown up reading crap like Cosmo and Elle, and the teenage versions of them, saying that tiktok is worse is joke. The invasive data mining is, but the content isn’t. Hell, Cosmo in particular is a major stain on the beauty standards of the world. Besides, it is absurdly easy to block specific services if a parent puts in a half hour of work.

    None of which matters. The point is that it isn’t “the internet” or “that phone” that’s the problem. If a parent isn’t going to put in the minimum effort to teach their kids, the kids are fucked way harder than by anything they’ll see online.