• GluWu@lemm.ee
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    6 months ago

    Not even in an emergency. Wait until you get fucked up and end up in the hospital with no family or friends. Life is still continuing out there.

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      6 months ago

      Yep. When my father was unconscious for a week before he died, I spent a lot of time at his bedside. The hospital staff was nice and made sure we had a room for him alone, even in the ICU, but every day when I stepped out, there was just life, going on out there, completely unbothered by my father lying three floors above, in his bed, dying. For quite a while I was so, so afraid of the same happening to me, one day. I would be alone though, I have no children. I cried, when I told one of the nurses about this thought and she hugged me and told me, they never let people die alone. Helped me a bit, right there.

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        Nurses are by far the best people in this world. They make me want to be a nurse or counselor or do literally anything to help people. They proved to me how valuable just being a good person is.

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      6 months ago

      I spent a few years homeless. Some of it critically ill. Unfortunately I’m aware. One of the many reasons I have a hard time giving myself any value.

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        Dang. I don’t know where you’ve been or where you are but I hope you’re doing better now. My negativity is mostly a meme. We’re all just sitting here too afraid to talk to each other.